More About What Teens Actually Hear When Parents Give Advice 🗣️
Parents usually give advice with the best intentions. They want to guide, protect, and help their teens avoid mistakes. However, what teens hear is often very different from what parents mean.
During adolescence, advice can easily be interpreted as criticism. The message sometimes changes on the way in due to:
• Sensitivity to judgment: Teens are developing their independence, so advice can feel like a sign that parents doubt their abilities.
• Emotional timing: Advice given during moments of stress or frustration can sound like correction rather than support. The brain is less open to guidance when emotions are high.
• Desire for autonomy: Many teens want space to figure things out on their own, even when they still need guidance. ��
Because of these dynamics, even helpful suggestions may be heard as pressure or disapproval.
SMD Associates can help your family understand the emotional filters teens experience. Get a consultation spot today to explore effective strategies. ����
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During adolescence, advice can easily be interpreted as criticism. The message sometimes changes on the way in due to:
• Sensitivity to judgment: Teens are developing their independence, so advice can feel like a sign that parents doubt their abilities.
• Emotional timing: Advice given during moments of stress or frustration can sound like correction rather than support. The brain is less open to guidance when emotions are high.
• Desire for autonomy: Many teens want space to figure things out on their own, even when they still need guidance. ��
Because of these dynamics, even helpful suggestions may be heard as pressure or disapproval.
SMD Associates can help your family understand the emotional filters teens experience. Get a consultation spot today to explore effective strategies. ����
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Sara Mathews Dixon is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker whose practice is built on the belief that the goals of the individual being treated are key to a successful therapeutic relationship. She uses individualized, person-centered planning in working with young adults, adolescents, adults, individuals, couples and families, in Connecticut and New York.
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